Louisville Christian Marriage Counseling Click To Call 502-526-5984
You can find christian marriage counseling in Louisville today.
Yes, you can heal your marriage...probably, the most asked question, with new marriage therapy clients. Yes God can and will heal your marriage if that is your desire and you are willing to put forth the effort. Yes, we understand, it may seem impossible now, but we have seen it over and over again. Couples have entered counseling with fear and doubt and have left full of hope. Marriage counseling in Louisville Ky does work. It will take the two of you. We have found through the years, that there are a few key areas that must be accepted in order to complete and fulfill the relationship that you desire.
5 Keys To A Successful Marriage
1. It is possible for your marriage to work...but you may have to change yourself.
Have you ever tried to push a rope, if not try it sometime. I think you will see the futility connected with trying to do so. Yet, many couples in a relationship try do just that...by trying to change their spouse to fit what they would like for them to be. This never seems to work. It's like trying to change the stripes on a Zebra.
2. The grass is greener when you water it and where you water it.
As humans we like to judge ourselves and our relationships by looking on the outside at others and their relationships. The television commercials and TV shows that portray a beautiful couple and family with no problems and all bliss. We we judge other relationships and families as perfect we will always feel "less than" and like we're missing out on something...our marriage isn't "good enough".
If you're watering the grass someplace else rather in your own relationship and home, then try watering the grass at home and see what happens.
3. Marriages that work well are ones that are resentment free.
The root of bitterness easily grows when you allow a grudge to take hold, or you decide to not to forgive the other person throughout the day. If you "let the sun to go down on your wrath", your surely to build up a wall between you and your spouse. We all make mistakes and if your looking for them in the other person, you'll find them. Love overlooks the faults and misgivings of others.
4. Sometimes you just need to adjust your attitude.
Most of the time we don't realize how our attitude affects those around us. We may have a good attitude, a can do attitude at work and then come home and whine and complain about life. I am here to tell you that no one likes being around negativity and it is most definitely toxic in a relationship. Check your attitude before you walk in the door to your home, they deserve you best also.
5. Small things matter, do the small things often and correctly.
Take care of the small things, one pebble at a time, rather than trying to move the boulder later. If you let things build up, they often are too big to handle. Focus...take care of the small thing now!
The small thing that you perceive as small may be large in the eyes of your spouse. Oftentimes...it is the small thought or action that means the most.
These are just some of the keys to a successful marriage and their many others. Whatever your situation is...there is hope and help available with our christian marriage counseling services in Louisville Ky.
You may need help with, how to heal from an affair. Maybe it's a lack of intimacy in your marriage or a lack of trust. How do you heal these issues? I believe there is help from the christian perspective, from biblical concepts and key tools to use to create the intimacy and trust that you desire. There is no reason why, (with two people that are willing to change and grow) that you can't have a marriage designed and made from heaven.
God has created and has designed us to function as he desires. He did not leave us without the tools and direction to do us. You may just need help in finding the direction, and that is what we are here for.
Louisville Christian Counseling has God-Fearing, God-Loving professional counselors that are here to help support you in your efforts.
Give us a call. We would love to meet you and discuss how we could move forward in helping you create the kind of relationship that you desire.
Call today for your free appointment to discuss whatever issue that you may be dealing with, and let's see how we can help. Your first appointment will be without cost.
Click To Call Now! 502-526-5984
Yes, you can heal your marriage...probably, the most asked question, with new marriage therapy clients. Yes God can and will heal your marriage if that is your desire and you are willing to put forth the effort. Yes, we understand, it may seem impossible now, but we have seen it over and over again. Couples have entered counseling with fear and doubt and have left full of hope. Marriage counseling in Louisville Ky does work. It will take the two of you. We have found through the years, that there are a few key areas that must be accepted in order to complete and fulfill the relationship that you desire.
5 Keys To A Successful Marriage
1. It is possible for your marriage to work...but you may have to change yourself.
Have you ever tried to push a rope, if not try it sometime. I think you will see the futility connected with trying to do so. Yet, many couples in a relationship try do just that...by trying to change their spouse to fit what they would like for them to be. This never seems to work. It's like trying to change the stripes on a Zebra.
2. The grass is greener when you water it and where you water it.
As humans we like to judge ourselves and our relationships by looking on the outside at others and their relationships. The television commercials and TV shows that portray a beautiful couple and family with no problems and all bliss. We we judge other relationships and families as perfect we will always feel "less than" and like we're missing out on something...our marriage isn't "good enough".
If you're watering the grass someplace else rather in your own relationship and home, then try watering the grass at home and see what happens.
3. Marriages that work well are ones that are resentment free.
The root of bitterness easily grows when you allow a grudge to take hold, or you decide to not to forgive the other person throughout the day. If you "let the sun to go down on your wrath", your surely to build up a wall between you and your spouse. We all make mistakes and if your looking for them in the other person, you'll find them. Love overlooks the faults and misgivings of others.
4. Sometimes you just need to adjust your attitude.
Most of the time we don't realize how our attitude affects those around us. We may have a good attitude, a can do attitude at work and then come home and whine and complain about life. I am here to tell you that no one likes being around negativity and it is most definitely toxic in a relationship. Check your attitude before you walk in the door to your home, they deserve you best also.
5. Small things matter, do the small things often and correctly.
Take care of the small things, one pebble at a time, rather than trying to move the boulder later. If you let things build up, they often are too big to handle. Focus...take care of the small thing now!
The small thing that you perceive as small may be large in the eyes of your spouse. Oftentimes...it is the small thought or action that means the most.
These are just some of the keys to a successful marriage and their many others. Whatever your situation is...there is hope and help available with our christian marriage counseling services in Louisville Ky.
You may need help with, how to heal from an affair. Maybe it's a lack of intimacy in your marriage or a lack of trust. How do you heal these issues? I believe there is help from the christian perspective, from biblical concepts and key tools to use to create the intimacy and trust that you desire. There is no reason why, (with two people that are willing to change and grow) that you can't have a marriage designed and made from heaven.
God has created and has designed us to function as he desires. He did not leave us without the tools and direction to do us. You may just need help in finding the direction, and that is what we are here for.
Louisville Christian Counseling has God-Fearing, God-Loving professional counselors that are here to help support you in your efforts.
Give us a call. We would love to meet you and discuss how we could move forward in helping you create the kind of relationship that you desire.
Call today for your free appointment to discuss whatever issue that you may be dealing with, and let's see how we can help. Your first appointment will be without cost.
Click To Call Now! 502-526-5984